Last week I went to the ohel to get some spiritual guidance. Generally, whenever I go to the ohel I watch a video or learn something so I can implement whatever I'm learned into my life. For example, every time a person goes to the dentist there is always something that the dentist says which you can do to benefit your teeth for the next visit.

Earlier this week, I started talking to many different people about what davening means to them. In one particular conversation, I asked, "why do we need to say words out of a siddur when a relationship between Hashem should be from our heart without a book?" The answer was as follows; Originally, people would use their own words to daven. Eventually they couldn't find what to say and, therefore, our rabbis instituted the siddur. The siddur gives each person words to say and,